Emotional Safety as a Standard
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For Leaders, Teams, and Tomorrow.

SEC Levels

🔷 SEC 1 – Specialist in Emotional Competence

"Leadership starts with yourself."

🎯 Objectives
Foundations of emotional self-awareness, self-regulation, and self-responsibility.
Working with one's own nervous system is the prerequisite for any form of conscious leadership.

📦 Core Modules

Module Focus & Content
Trauma & Self-Protection Nervous system, vagus nerve, flashbacks, somatic basics, safety strategies
Language & Nonviolent Communication NVC attitude, needs-based work, connection & boundaries
Self-Empowerment & Identity Formation Embodiment, ownership, inner clarity & expressive power
Self-Abandonment vs. Normative Functioning Masking, social adaptation, rebellion, authenticity
Music & Self-Love (“Workbook: In Love with Myself”) Reframing love songs, musical self-connection
Objectification vs. Being a Subject Gerald Hüther, dignity of the subject, self-love vs. egoism

🧭 Learning Goals

  • Development of emotional self-awareness

  • Understanding of triggers, defense strategies, and bodily responses

  • Building first self-regulation tools

  • Introduction to self-leadership, inner dialogue & communication awareness

🧬 Psychological & Neurobiological Foundations

  • Polyvagal theory, stress & defense systems (Fight / Flight / Freeze / Fawn)

  • Shame, guilt, inner child, parts work

  • Connection between emotion, nervous system, and language

🧰 Methods

  • Theoretical input & lectures

  • Guided bodywork & nervous system practices

  • Reflection groups & peer feedback

  • Workbook ("In Love with Myself") + transfer tasks

Quote for Attitude
“You cannot lead others before you lead yourself.”

🔷 SEC 2 – Strategist of Emotional Culture

"Relationships are not tools – they are the foundation of all leadership."

🎯 Objectives
Development of emotional leadership in social contexts:
Take responsibility, enable co-regulation, navigate conflict, and create safe relationships.
Leadership becomes emotionally anchored connection.

📦 Core Modules

Module Focus & Content
Relationship & Attachment Polyvagal theory, attachment styles, emotional safety in leadership
Error Culture & Shadow Work Shame, guilt, responsibility, learning and growth through mistakes
Boundaries, Clarity & Conflict De-escalation, escalation, saying no, dialogue management
Paranoia, Fear & Guilt Inversion Masculinity crisis, control behavior, victim dynamics
Intersectionality & Inter-Module* Body politics, queerness, gender, diversity as leadership skill
Emotional Music Education & Animal Therapy Regulation & bonding through creative/physical processes
Ambiguity Tolerance & Role Awareness Projection dynamics, ambiguity, role reflection

🧭 Learning Goals

  • Understanding emotional leadership as connection and responsibility

  • Cultivating psychological safety in teams

  • Practicing mindful dialogue and conflict moderation

  • Developing authority without dominance

  • Learning to embrace and shape diversity and uncertainty

🧬 Psychological & Leadership Theory Foundations

  • Attachment theory (Bowlby/Ainsworth) in leadership

  • Co-regulation, polyvagal theory (Porges) and emotional fields

  • Error culture, micromanagement & psychodynamic role understanding

  • Dealing with power dynamics, role confusion, and shadow projection

🧰 Methods

  • Roleplays on de/escalation, conflict, and feedback

  • Group dynamics workshops with observation phases

  • Supervision, video analysis & peer reflection

  • Individual coaching on leadership identity

Quote for Attitude
“Leadership begins with co-regulation.”

🔷 SEC 3 – Systemic Emotional Consultant

"Systems carry responsibility – people live within them."

🎯 Objectives
Recognize, understand, and transform complex emotional dynamics in organizations.
Systemic leadership means taking responsibility for collective patterns, cultural codes, and implicit power structures.
Emotional leadership becomes a cultural practice.

📦 Core Modules

Module Focus & Content
Social Analysis & Pain Points Capitalism, patriarchy, performance culture, alienation, norm pressure, loss of roles
Professional Emotional Leader (PEL) Mission statement, ethics, leadership identity & integrity work
Culture of Responsibility Shadow work in power positions, shifting responsibility, loss of integrity
Systemic Betrayal Passing on pain, re-traumatization in organizations, exit & healing
Neurodivergence & Psychological Diversity Inclusion, trauma sensitivity, ADHD, autism, depression
Ambiguity & Collective Consciousness Ambiguity, collective parts, emotional-social complexity

🧭 Learning Goals

  • Identify and influence emotional system dynamics

  • Uncover toxic cultures, collective narratives, and implicit structures

  • Understand inclusion & diversity as emotional, not just structural

  • Establish emotional sustainability in leadership & organizations

  • Recognize emotional leadership as societal responsibility

🧬 Systemic & Key Theoretical Foundations

  • Social systems (Luhmann), systemic constellations (Weber / Varga v. Kibéd)

  • Power theory (Foucault), shadow work (Jung, Rohr, Gergen)

  • Neurodivergence as resource & challenge

  • Trauma sensitivity in leadership, diversity, and cultural change

🧰 Methods

  • Systemic structure constellations: making roles & organizational images visible

  • Storywork: corporate stories as emotional code mirrors

  • Culture mapping & scenario work: reshaping emotional architecture

  • Large group processes: working with collective emotions

Quote for Attitude
“Systems feel – not just lead.”

🔷 SEC 4 – Sustainer of Emotional Coherence

"Share what you embody."

🎯 Objectives
Enable participants to hold emotional safety in small groups, moderate sharing processes, and take initial responsibility for collective dynamics – without yet being SEC5.
This level bridges lived practice and the first steps of social responsibility – without the full structural weight of a multiplier role.

📦 Core Modules

Module Focus & Content
Holding Space & Peer Leadership Group awareness, collective emotionality, building circle formats
Attitude & Ethics Light SEC Codex Light, projections, group dynamics, peer conflict moderation
Reflection & Feedback Skills Active listening, appreciative mirroring, dealing with triggers & reactions
Toolkit "Lite" Mini SEC tools: NVC impulses, breathwork, embodiment, check-ins, mini-attunement

🧭 Learning Goals

  • Consciously shape and share one’s emotional coherence

  • Moderate small formats (sharing circles, micro-retreats, SEC check-ins)

  • Take first responsibility for group emotions & regulation

  • Learn to differentiate between hosting & teaching

  • Begin assuming cultural responsibility as an emotional peer

🧰 Methods

  • Hands-on exercises for peer leadership, space-holding & moderation

  • Reflection groups on attitude, ethics & self-responsibility

  • Introduction to SEC-specific rituals and tools

  • Light supervision & collective feedback processes

🧾 Certificate & Title
Optional Title: Emotional Culture Host (ECH)
✔ Counts as pre-stage for SEC+
✔ Visible recognition of emotional responsibility within the SEC system

🔄 Systemic Classification & Differentiation

Aspect SEC 4 – Sustainer of Emotional Coherence SEC+ – Senior Emotional Catalyst
Responsibility Hosting & Peer Leadership Full leadership & teaching
Target Group Peer hosts, community facilitators Trainers, changemakers
Scope 2–3 modules / compact support Long-term process with feedback obligation
Ethics & Attitude Codex Light, focus on presence & humility Full SEC+ Codex with supervision obligation
Development Path Bridge to SEC+ Final stage with full responsibility
 

Quote for Attitude
“Leadership begins with listening. And hosting is a form of leadership.”

🔷 SEC 5 – Sovereign of Emotional Consciousness

"Teach what transforms – but never without yourself."

🎯 Objectives
SEC+ qualifies multipliers who not only teach, but embody.
They shape organizations emotionally, hold safe spaces, and accompany systemic transformation – without neglecting their own inner work.
They are not “graduates” but carriers of a deep-rooted attitude:
Leadership through connection, presence, and self-reflection.

📚 Core Content

🧱 1. Structural Setup & Methodology

  • Develop and teach all SEC core modules

  • Design of group formats, retreats & workshop architectures

  • Role understanding, workflow structures, space design

🔥 2. Internal Healing Work in the Team

  • Burnout prevention & psychological hygiene

  • Supervision & collective safety

  • Building emergency structures & peer circles

👥 3. Community Design & The Attunement

  • Establish long-term cultural formats (retreats, ritual spaces, community hubs)

  • Integrate collective reflection and development spaces

  • Connect to expanded SEC networks & alumni structures

🎓 4. Train-the-Teacher & Curriculum Work

  • Didactics, group facilitation, trauma awareness

  • Dealing with projection, group dynamics, shadow work

  • Develop own modules, certificates & SEC training formats

🔁 5. Impact & Culture Transfer

  • Systemic consulting in organizations

  • Cultural anchoring in companies, education & NGOs

  • Development of sustainable structures of impact

🔄 Feedback Obligation: Reflection as System Element
SEC+ is not a teaching authority – it is a constantly reflecting organism.
Carriers of SEC+ commit to regular feedback loops with themselves, peers, and the culture.

💡 Mandatory Reflection Formats

  • Annual re-attunement (supervision + group reflection)

  • Peer consulting in tandem or team

  • Participation in SEC+ meta circle (e.g. 1x/quarter)

  • Meta logbook: personal reflection journal

  • Observation & learning in unfamiliar settings

📜 The SEC+ Codex (Self-Commitment)
"I acknowledge that any leadership aimed at transformation must begin with myself.
I vow not to end my own emotional work while accompanying others.
I commit to feedback, humility, and the care of my integrity –
knowing that I will never be a finished human being.
Leadership is not a position. It is a promise I renew each day."